Anxiety and Widowhood

  Since George died, I’m much more anxious than I used to be. I’ve probably always had an anxiety disorder which, in the past, I’ve called “being anal retentive.” When … Continue Reading →


Kissed in the Louvre (flash non-fiction)

  I was getting lost in the Louvre when I found a different sort of artwork. Gorgeous, French, leather jacket, sideburns, a Jean Paul Belmondo type or “type,” as they … Continue Reading →


I’m Clingy in Woman’s Day

  I’m in Woman’s Day talking about being needy in my relationship. My article is written from the perspective of a widow, but I think these feelings arise when we’re … Continue Reading →


George in Woman’s Day and The Male Breast Cancer Coalition

While I was out:  I just got back from France and wanted to share two new article-things. Apologies if this is redundant of my Facebook Pages. I’m in Woman’s Day … Continue Reading →

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How I Embarrassed Myself (Oh no!) on Woman’s Day: It’s About S-E-X

First, I do not pick the writing prompts for the magazine group I submit to.  This one was “My sexuality as a widow.”  And I thought, what the fuck, I’ll … Continue Reading →


I’m in Elephant Journal! Three Years After George Died…

April 10, 2016 will be the three year anniversary of my husband George’s death. I’d hoped to feel healed by now—to have emerged from grieving stronger and complete—but most of … Continue Reading →


Superb Tips from an Online Dater on Huffington Post

  • By Debbie
  • March 23, 2016
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Hello!  It’s me again.  I’ve distilled all my online dating tips into one article.  And it’s on the Huffington Post right here: Superb Tips from a Former Online Dating Addict.  The … Continue Reading →

I'm Reaching Out Here

The Hungover Widow Contemplates Employment

It is now time to contemplate getting a grown up job. (Ok, a part-time sort of grown up job).  Now, I suck at being a grown up. I wrote about … Continue Reading →

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I Get Sexy in Elle Decor

Last October, there was a hot, nearly naked, 30-year-old app developer in my bathroom, but I really wanted him to leave. I’d met him online on OK Cupid, and he’d … Continue Reading →

Me and George in 1983

My David Bowie Tribute on The Huffington Post

  I have a new piece up on The Huffington Post discussing my love for David Bowie’s music.  I started in 1981  in college and…Read the rest here:   From Rebel, Rebel … Continue Reading →